bloggerdygook

I don’t know about you, but I love labels. No, not labels like designer brands. And not labels like stickers. I mean social labels, nouns which refer to people’s specific characteristics or behaviour.
The thing I like about labels is that you get to pigeonhole the image of this person in your head perfectly with that [...]

I found this post and apparently there are 4 common types of mechanical defenses.
Denial
In other words, lying to yourself momentarily. Pretending the thing you think might be happening is not. Do I do this often? Hmm, rarely, I’d say, and I call it giving the person the benefit of the doubt, haha. I far more [...]